<%@LANGUAGE="VBSCRIPT" CODEPAGE="1252"%> History and Research on the Riddle-Dollahite-Palmer-Durham Cemetery, Stokes Co., NC
Google
Reagan X-C
Main Page
Patterson
Patterson DNA
'Civil War'
Black
Fishburne-Bellinger
Davis
Biblical-Royal
Photo Galleries
Who We Are

© 1996 - 2008
Wes Patterson

Wes Patterson - Fall 1999 school picture

The RIDDLE-DOLLAHITE-PALMER-DURHAM Family Cemetery
Francisco, Stokes Co., NC

List of Graves

I currently (June 19, 2001) have identified the names of at least 27 of the 40 people who have been buried in this cemetery. It has taken 3 years of research (1994-97), such as speaking to relatives, studying census records, deeds, and various other documents, to come up with the list that I now have. Of the 27 names that I have identified, I am 100% sure that they are there. There are other family members that I am beginning to research in an effort to determine who the other 13+ graves belong to. Of the 27 that I know are there, there are 3 or 4 graves with markings on them which either I cannot totally identify, or I can identify them but don't know how they tie in to the family yet. One such grave belongs to W. H. Vaughn. I have no idea at this point who he is, but I hope to determine that soon. Stay tuned! I hope to have the list online again soon.

History of Families

I began to research the PALMER family around 1991. Since that time, it has grown to a much larger project than I ever dreamed it would be. The PALMERS of Stokes County, NC descend from Tyre RIDDLE (in part), who was born around 1765. Tyre's daughter, Elizabeth RIDDLE, married William DOLLAHITE, a.k.a. Dollihite, Dollyhite, Dollyhigh, Dollihide, Dollarhite, etc. William and Elizabeth's daughter, Mary DOLLAHITE, married Elias PALMER, a.k.a. Parmer.

The land on which Tyre RIDDLE settled in Stokes county, NC was in the area of what is now Francisco, NC, off of Highway 89. Horseshoe Road comes off of Hwy 89 (on both ends of Horseshoe Rd), just outside of Francisco. This is just a couple of miles east of the Surry county line, and a few miles south of the Virginia line. The Tyre Riddle land was quite a spread, in excess of a thousand acres (I'm not sure of the total amount at this point). It went from what is now Horseshoe Rd all the way past Big Creek to what is now Highway 66. The land that was left after Tyre's son, Asa Riddle moved on west, was divided between Tyre's 3 daughters, Ursula (b. 1795), Elizabeth (b. 1797) and Mary (b. 1800). Ursula and Mary never married, so much of their land was sold or willed to their sister Elizabeth Riddle Dollahite, and her children. Thus, the land of Tyre Riddle passed from the Riddle family into the Dollahite family.

William DOLLAHITE was the progenitor of all of the Stokes county Dollahites of that day. His daughter Mary ended up with the main plots of land that had passed down from the Riddles. She married Elias PARMER (or PALMER) in 1856. When Mary Dollahite Palmer died in 1868 or 1869, she was buried in the family cemetery that had been started by the Riddles on this piece of land. I don't know who the earliest persons were to be buried in this cemetery, but it has become obvious to me over the last 2-3 years that this IS the Tyre Riddle Cemetery, and that it passed to the Dollahite family, and became their family cemetery, and then passed to the Palmer family and became their family cemetery. Just as the land passed through these families, so did this cemetery.

Elias Palmer's second wife was Clara "Clary" NUNN, daughter of John and Sceny Phillips Nunn, Sr. One of Elias's and Clary's daughters, Victoria Tex "Vickie" PALMER, married George Washington DURHAM on August 25th, 1898. Although this land never passed into the Durham family, there were several members, mostly children, of the Durham family that were buried in this cemetery. Almost all of the Durhams buried here, are grandchildren of Elias Palmer. However, they are not descendants of the Riddles or Dollahites, since the Durhams descend from Elias's 2nd marriage (to Clary Nunn). There are clearly three sets of families which are buried here, most of them related, but with certain pockets of the families not necessarily related.

When I began working on cleaning up this cemetery, I could only count about 25 or so graves, since the underbrush was so thick, and the surrounding forest was so thick that no sunlight ever penetrated the area anymore. However, at this juncture (May 20, 1997), my last count was up to at least 40 definite graves in this "Cemetery on the hill". I have maintained a diary throughout my endeavors of restoring this cemetery, and have taken various pictures from time to time to capture the before-and-after effect. I will do my best to get these pictures scanned and posted to this site as soon as possible, and I also plan to record some of my diary entries here as well.

Location of Cemetery

There are basically 3 ways to get to this cemetery. It is located just outside the town of Francisco, NC (to the west). Highway 89 runs east from Westfield (which is in Surry county) to Francisco, and then on to Danbury, NC. Horseshoe Road is shaped just as it's named, with both ends of the road running north into Highway 89, just west of Francisco. On the western leg of Horseshoe Road, another road angles off of Horseshoe Road to the southwest. This road is called Smith Road, and it runs about 1 mile (at most) before it dead ends into Highway 66. Therefore, you can get to Horseshoe Road by coming up Hwy 66 to Smith Road, or by coming across Hwy 89 from Westfield or from Francisco.

If you were to come up Hwy 66 to Smith Road, you would turn right onto Horseshoe Road to get to the cemetery. After turning right off Smith Road onto Horseshoe, go about 1/10 mile to a dirt/gravel driveway on the right. This driveway is just past a horse farm which is also located on the right side of the road. This driveway goes parallel to the horse farm, and is used by the Beatrice Palmer family who lives in the house just past the driveway. After you turn into the driveway, you can only go about 100 yards and then you'll run into a gate which is kept locked. This road (and the land beyond the gate next to the road) is owned by a gentleman who lives in Winston-Salem, NC. This man has been nice enough to let me have a key to the gate so that I may go anytime I need to work on the cemetery. Please contact me at the email address or mailing address listed below if you would like to go to the cemetery. The cemetery is another 1/4 mile down this old wagon road, and off to the left of the road about 100 yards.

The cemetery is located back in the woods, nestled on a hill above what used to be called "White Oak Branch". For all I know (and I'll try to find out), it is still called that. The owner of the land around the cemetery would prefer that if anyone wants to visit the cemetery, and he believes people should, that they contact me (Wes Patterson), and arrange a time for me to take them to the cemetery. The road is kind of bad, at least half of the year, and as I stated above, there is a locked gate at the head of the wagon road, just off of Horseshoe Road.